Words of Wisdom from my 84-Year Old Grandmother
Stepping into the sanctuary of accumulated wisdom, my grandmother, a constant pillar of strength, imparts her timeless wisdom. In response to six fundamental questions, she distills a lifetime of experiences into profound insights, offering a glimpse into the invaluable lessons that have shaped her and continue to inspire those around her.
There’s Room For All
Hayley, in her latest musings, reflects on the expanding horizons of industries and the interconnectedness of shared interests. In her recent newsletter, she delved into a topic that has been percolating in her mind, prompted by the evolving landscape of various fields. As she contemplates the richness of diverse voices and experiences, Hayley finds inspiration in the kaleidoscope of perspectives that enrich our collective journey.
Allyssa’s Story
In her youth, Allyssa Dickert shunned drinking, opting for Pepsi at age 13 amidst Southern California's pervasive beach culture of alcohol. Despite early signs of binge drinking trouble, she embraced the 'party girl' persona, using alcohol to cope through college and her broadcast news career. A turning point came in Fort Myers, Florida, where she confronted her drinking, leading to a commitment to sobriety on September 13, 2021, fueled by therapy, yoga, and self-discovery.
None of the Bad Things Happened
Giving up alcohol was scary and overwhelming. Even though Todd knew it was the right decision, he also thought life without alcohol would be a little dull and boring, a bit like a prison sentence for not being able to “drink like a normal person.” What he discovered, however, was that giving it up was the farthest thing from a prison sentence. “I Didn’t Believe it Either” is the raw, honest, vulnerable and sometimes funny story of Todd’s journey to quitting the one thing he thought he couldn’t live without and his discovery that sobriety is better than he ever imagined.
Fueling the Fire: Three Strategies to Sustain Motivation
In the journey towards our goals, maintaining motivation can be a formidable challenge. "Fueling the Fire: Three Strategies to Sustain Motivation" explores effective tactics to keep your motivation burning bright, even in the face of adversity. From breaking down objectives into manageable tasks to harnessing the power of visualization and seeking support from your community, this blog offers actionable insights to help you stay driven and focused on your aspirations.
Derick Santiago: The ‘Mocktail Wiz’
Join Hayley in an interview with Derick Santiago, AKA the 'Mocktail Wiz.' Get ready for an inside look into Derick's incredible journey of transformation and creativity. From their chat, you'll uncover the story behind Mocktail Wiz, from its humble beginnings to its current status as a source of inspiration in the alcohol-free community.
The Magic is in Self-Love
Celebrate the essence of love this Valentine's Day and beyond as you explore the transformative power of self-love. Discover why nurturing a deep sense of compassion and acceptance for oneself isn't just a gesture, but a profound journey toward authenticity and inner fulfillment.
Chels’ story
Chelsea's journey with alcohol led her to dependence and despair until a transformative moment in New Zealand prompted her to quit. Now, approaching her fifth year sober, she celebrates newfound freedom, strengthened relationships, and mental clarity. Discover the power of an unwasted life with Chelsea's inspiring story.
The Power of Gratitude
Hayley's journey towards sobriety was marked by major shifts in perspective and newfound appreciation for life's simple joys. As she navigated the complexities of an alcohol-free existence, Hayley discovered the transformative power of gratitude.
Beyond Labels
In this reflection, Hayley shares a personal journey of grappling with alcohol misuse and the weight of labels. Through candid storytelling, she explores the complexities of self-definition and empowerment in the face of societal expectations. The article advocates for compassion, understanding, and the courage to rewrite one's story on one's own terms, fostering a sense of inclusivity and solidarity within the journey towards sobriety.
Self-Exploration in Alcohol-Free Living
Nicole Nettell, a soberish writer from Upper Michigan, shares her journey of self-discovery after quitting alcohol at 22. Through introspection, she highlights the profound impact of sobriety on confronting truths, nurturing self-care, rediscovering values, and embracing creativity and entrepreneurial dreams. Her narrative inspires courage and compassion, urging readers to embrace self-exploration and break free from comparison, resonating as a beacon of hope for those navigating recovery.
January 31
As Dry January draws to a close, Hayley extends congratulations to all participants. For her, it's more than a challenge—it's a journey of personal growth. Hayley encourages reflection and celebrates every victory, highlighting the transformative power of perseverance. She invites participants to share their stories, fostering a supportive community of growth and encouragement.
Secrets of a Grey Area Drinker
Explore the intricacies of grey area drinking through Christen's personal narrative. From dance floors to sober empowerment, witness the challenges of quitting alcohol in a world that often misunderstands. Celebrate the resilience that transforms 'Fun & Crazy Chris' into the empowered 'Badass Chris,' revealing the true rewards of an unwasted life.
A Collective Journey
In a culture that celebrates diverse journeys, from health-driven choices to overcoming addiction, sobriety becomes a collective expedition. Find beauty in acknowledging alcohol's toxicity, regardless of where you are on the sobriety spectrum. Embrace your unique journey, resist comparisons, and unite in celebrating victories together. Let's move beyond comparison, fostering empathy and breaking down stigmas to create a supportive community.
Why Escaping with Booze Is Never the Answer
Life is a journey with its share of highs and lows, and sometimes, it may feel easier to escape in a bottle. Despite the allure of alcohol as a temporary escape, turning to booze is not a solution.
Chelsea’s Story
Guest writer Chelsea triumphs over addiction and mental health challenges, finding solace in 12-step meetings. Her military service, though prideful, intensifies struggles. Now happily sober, Chelsea uplifts others through a podcast and community, aiming to de-stigmatize mental health and offer support.
The Anthems That Guide Me
Captured on the eve of my last night of drinking, this distorted image serves as a visual testament to the turbulence that once defined my life. Each shattered fragment tells a story of a chapter marked by chaos and uncertainty. However, amidst the fractured echoes, the true beauty emerges — a crystal-clear clarity that unfolded when I embraced sobriety. This image encapsulates the transformative journey towards an 'unwasted' life, guided by anthems of resilience and self-discovery over the past five years.
Mandy’s Story
Guest writer Mandy shares her 1089 sober days journey, starting from an unhealthy relationship with alcohol on graduation night. Contemplating drinking at work in 2020, she found solace in Alan Carr's book, quitting on January 11, 2021. Embracing quit lit, podcasts, and sober Instagram, in-person AA meetings at 18 months brought community but spiritual struggles. Open about her journey, Mandy believes sobriety transformed her life amid challenges like her father's death and divorce, encouraging others that recovery is possible with healthy coping.
My First Month
In the snapshot of my first month without alcohol, my eyes tell a story of a journey marked by vulnerability and resilience. They reflect the emotions of a transformative period—a blend of courage, self-reflection, and an unwavering commitment to authenticity.
Dry January 2024
Dive into the transformative experience of Dry January—a month-long commitment that goes beyond abstaining from alcohol. Discover self-love, explore healthier choices, and unleash personal growth. Join me in this journey towards a fulfilling, unwasted life.